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Planning a Hen Party Weekend

How to plan the perfect hen party weekend, budgets, itinerary templates, activity recommendations and insider tips from organisers who have been through it all.

The Planning Timeline

3–4 Months Out

Date & Destination

Check bride availability. Pick a city with good activities, nightlife and accommodation. London, Brighton, Manchester and Liverpool are top hen weekend destinations.

2–3 Months Out

Accommodation

Book accommodation that can be cancelled/reduced. Consider an Airbnb for the full group or a hotel with group booking discount.

6–8 Weeks Out

Main Activity

Book the headline activity, our drag bingo show or similar. Saturday slots go fast. Contact group to confirm headcount first.

4–6 Weeks Out

Send Invites

Share the itinerary, costs per person and what to bring. Include dress code info, travel details and payment deadlines.

2–4 Weeks Out

Collect Payments

Final headcount confirmed. Collect remaining payments. Book any optional extras (restaurant reservations, club tables).

1 Week Out

Final Details

Share final schedule, meeting points, emergency contact and what to pack. Excitement builds.

Sample Weekend Itinerary

Friday

  • 4pm: Check into accommodation
  • 6pm: Pre-drinks and bride gift time
  • 8pm: Dinner reservation (book ahead!)
  • 10pm: Bar or club if the group has energy

Saturday

  • 10am: Relaxed breakfast at accommodation
  • 12pm: Pre-show drinks and getting ready
  • 2pm: Butlers in the Buff Live show (£16.25pp+)
  • 6pm: Post-show wind down / photos
  • 8pm: Dinner and evening out

Sunday

  • 10am: Brunch or breakfast out
  • 12pm: Check out / head home
  • Afternoon: Bride recaps the weekend with photos

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I plan a hen party weekend?
Agree date 3–4 months ahead. Set budget (£100–250pp). Choose destination. Book accommodation + main activities first.
How many people typically come?
8–16 typical for a weekend. Our Party Bundle (10 for 9) rewards larger groups.
What is a good budget?
£100–250pp typical including accommodation, activities, meals and drinks. Our Entry Only ticket at £16.25 is the most affordable activity.
How far in advance?
3–4 months for weekends, 4–6 months for summer. Accommodation books up fast.
What makes a successful itinerary?
Mix structured activities with free time. Core formula: Friday arrival, Saturday main activity + evening, Sunday relaxed brunch.
Do I need ID for entry?
Yes, all guests must be 18 or over and valid photo ID (passport, driving licence or PASS card) is required for entry. If you look under 25, please bring ID.

Start Planning Your Hen Weekend

The perfect hen weekend starts with the perfect activity. Book our show as your Saturday centrepiece.

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